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Child Custody Attorneys in Dallas and North Texas

By Christopher Migliaccio · Texas Attorney · Texas Bar #24053059
Published: February 7, 2012 · Last Updated: March 31, 2026 · 27 min read

Reviewed by Gary R. Warren, Co-Founding Partner at Warren & Migliaccio, L.L.P.

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  • Need-to-Know Highlights
  • Get Legal Support for Your DFW or North Texas Custody Case
  • How Our Dallas Child Custody Attorneys Help North Texas Families
  • Our Child Custody Lawyers in Dallas Serve Families Across North Texas
  • Types of Child Custody in Texas
  • Who Decides Child Custody in Texas?
  • Find Your Custody Path
  • Starting a New Custody Case
  • Changing an Existing Custody Order
  • What Do Judges Look for in Child Custody Cases in Texas?
  • How to Win Child Custody in Texas
  • Contact Our Child Custody Attorneys in Dallas, TX for Help With Your Child Custody Case
  • Frequently Asked Questions About Child Custody in Texas

Our Dallas child custody attorneys help parents and families across DFW and North Texas resolve conservatorship, visitation, relocation, modifications, and other custody disputes while protecting their parental rights. We explain your options and work toward arrangements that serve your child’s best interests. This page explains the types of cases we handle and how Texas courts decide custody.

Need-to-Know Highlights

Our Dallas child custody attorneys handle the issues below, and this page explains how Texas courts approach them.

  • We assist with parenting plans, visitation, child support, paternity, relocation, enforcement, and grandparents’ rights.
  • In Texas, people often say ‘child custody,’ but Texas law uses terms like conservatorship, possession, and access, and conservatorship commonly includes joint managing conservatorship or sole managing conservatorship. Tex. Fam. Code ch. 153.
  • Parents may resolve custody through negotiation or mediation, but the court decides when no agreement is reached.
  • Judges focus on the child’s best interest, including the child’s physical and emotional needs, safety, and each parent’s circumstances.

Get Legal Support for Your DFW or North Texas Custody Case

We know custody cases affect every part of your family’s daily life, and we take that seriously. Whether you need an agreed parenting plan, help with a contested custody dispute, sole custody, modifications to an existing order, enforcement, paternity, child support, relocation, or grandparents’ rights, our Dallas office works with families across North Texas. Keep reading to learn how Texas courts handle these issues, or contact us to talk about your situation.

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How Our Dallas Child Custody Attorneys Help North Texas Families

We guide parents and families through the complexities of child custody cases in Texas. Drawing on our years of experience, we advocate for North Texas families just like yours.
Our dedicated team of Dallas child custody lawyers is here to provide skilled legal assistance tailored to your unique situation. We have extensive experience and success helping with all child custody matters. For example, we often handle cases involving:

In our experience representing parents across Dallas and Collin County family courts, judges consistently focus on two things above everything else: the stability of the child’s current routine and whether each parent is genuinely encouraging the child’s relationship with the other side. We have seen well-meaning parents lose ground because they made unilateral decisions about school or medical care without following the order, or because they could not show consistent day-to-day involvement. The cases that tend to go best are the ones where a parent can point to specific records — attendance at school events, medical appointments, and regular communication — rather than general claims about being a good parent.

  • Parenting plans. For parents going through a divorce or separation, we can help you establish a custody arrangement and parenting plan through negotiation, mediation, or litigation. We work to secure a custody arrangement that protects your child’s best interests and your parental rights.
  • Custody for same-sex partners. Same-sex and LGBTQ+ custody cases can be more complex if only one parent has established parental rights under the law. A non-biological parent may need to take additional legal steps to establish parental rights. We work to help make sure your parental rights are recognized and respected.
  • Visitation (called ‘possession and access’ under Texas law). We work to establish possession schedules and access terms that protect your right to maintain a strong and ongoing relationship with your child. Tex. Fam. Code ch. 153.
  • Modifications. Life changes, and so do the needs of your family. We help modify existing custody orders to accommodate significant life events like relocation, job changes, or changes in your child’s needs.
  • Enforcement. If your child’s other parent is not sticking to the custody agreement, we can take action to enforce the order.
  • Child support. We guide parents through the process of establishing, modifying, and enforcing child support arrangements. We work to help meet your child’s financial needs while also protecting your financial interests.
  • Paternity. We assist unmarried fathers in legally establishing paternity, securing parental rights, and pursuing custody, visitation, and support orders.
  • Parental relocation. We provide legal assistance for parental relocation cases, addressing the challenges when a parent with custody wishes to move, or when a parent moves to Texas and needs to register and enforce an out-of-state custody order. Our Dallas child custody attorneys advocate for solutions that protect your child’s best interests and your parental rights.
  • Grandparents’ rights. In Texas, grandparents may be able to seek conservatorship or possession and access in limited situations, but they do not have automatic rights to custody or visitation. These cases usually require standing and proof that meets the Family Code’s standards. Tex. Fam. Code § 102.004. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.433.

The list above is not exhaustive of the types of child custody and family law cases we represent. During a consultation, we are happy to discuss your unique situation and how we may be able to help you with your case.

Our Child Custody Lawyers in Dallas Serve Families Across North Texas

At Warren & Migliaccio, we represent parents and families throughout North Texas. With two convenient office locations, one in Dallas and one in Richardson, we handle family and child custody matters across DFW and North Texas. Our firm often handles cases in the following counties and cities:

  • Collin County: Plano, Frisco, McKinney, Allen, Murphy, and Anna
  • Dallas County: Dallas, Irving, Garland, DeSoto, and Farmers Branch
  • Denton County: Denton, Lewisville, Little Elm, The Colony, Corinth, and Highland Village
  • Rockwall County: Rockwall, Fate, and McLendon-Chisolm
  • Tarrant County: Fort Worth, Arlington, North Richland Hills, Euless, Bedford, and Keller

Types of Child Custody in Texas

In Texas, people often say ‘child custody,’ but Texas law uses terms like conservatorship, possession, and access. Conservatorship covers parental rights and duties, while possession and access covers the schedule for time with the child. Tex. Fam. Code ch. 153.
Understanding the different types of conservatorships is important for parents dealing with child custody in Texas. The most common arrangements are joint managing conservatorship (JMC) and sole managing conservatorship (SMC). Our child custody attorneys in Dallas discuss these arrangements in more detail below. Tex. Fam. Code ch. 153.

Joint Managing Conservatorship (JMC)

In a joint managing conservatorship, parents share parental rights and duties concerning their child. The order can divide decision-making authority between the parents, and one parent may still have the exclusive right to determine the child’s primary residence. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.134.
In Texas, there is a rebuttable presumption that appointing both parents as joint managing conservators is in the child’s best interest. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.131(b).
However, joint managing conservatorship does not require equal time. One parent may have the exclusive right to determine the child’s primary residence, and the other parent may receive possession and access under the order. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.134. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.135.
Related: Is Texas a 50/50 Custody State?

Sole Managing Conservatorship (SMC)

In a sole managing conservatorship, often called ‘full custody‘ in everyday speech, the court gives one parent the exclusive rights listed in the order. That usually includes major decision-making rights, but the other parent may still be appointed a possessory conservator and receive possession and access. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.132. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.192.
The court may award one parent sole managing conservatorship when there is evidence that joint conservatorship may hurt the child’s well-being or put the child in danger. The reasons for awarding sole custody may include, but are not limited to:

  • History of domestic violence, abuse, or neglect
  • History of alcohol or substance abuse
  • Parent’s absence
  • Parent’s physical or mental health issues

Even if one parent is awarded sole conservatorship, the other parent may be designated a possessory conservator or a parent with visitation rights.
The possessory conservator usually has the right to spend time with the child according to a schedule set by the court. While they may not have a say in the primary decisions, they may retain some parental rights and duties outlined by the court.
Related Guides:

  • What is Primary Physical Custody Custody?
  • What Are Texas Standard Possession Orders?

Comparing Texas Conservatorship Types

How the three main custody arrangements differ under Texas Family Code ch. 153

Feature Joint Managing (JMC) Sole Managing (SMC) Possessory
Decision-making rights Divided between both parents; some decisions may be exclusive to one parent One parent holds exclusive rights listed in the order Limited rights; major decisions belong to the managing conservator
Where the child lives One parent often has the exclusive right to set primary residence Sole managing conservator determines residence Child lives with the managing conservator; possessory parent has scheduled time
Parenting time Shared, but not necessarily equal; schedule set by order Primary time with sole conservator Scheduled possession and access per court order
When courts use it Presumed to be in child’s best interest
Default in Texas
When JMC may endanger the child (abuse, neglect, substance issues) Non-custodial parent in SMC arrangement; retains visitation rights
Key statute Tex. Fam. Code §§ 153.131–.135 Tex. Fam. Code §§ 153.132, .005 Tex. Fam. Code § 153.192

Who Decides Child Custody in Texas?

We understand that dealing with child custody can be one of the most challenging aspects of a separation or divorce. However, it is important to understand that parents have the opportunity to agree on custody arrangements outside of court. But, if parents cannot reach an agreement, the court will step in to make a decision.
Generally, there are a few options available in deciding custody, including:

In our experience, most custody cases in North Texas settle before trial — but the ones that settle well are the ones where the parent came to mediation with a clear proposal backed by real evidence, not just a list of complaints about the other side. The parents who prepare as if the case is going to trial tend to get better results even when it settles.

How Texas Custody Cases Move Forward

  • 1

    Filing

    SAPCR or divorce petition filed; other parent served

  • 2

    Temporary Orders

    Court sets interim custody, support, and restrictions while the case is pending

  • 3

    Negotiation

    Parents and attorneys try to reach an agreed parenting plan

    If no agreement ↓
  • 4

    Mediation

    Neutral mediator helps both sides work toward a settlement

    If no agreement ↓
  • 5

    Trial

    Judge hears evidence and issues a final custody order

  • Negotiation. In an amicable separation or divorce, parents may be able to work out custody arrangements without going to court. Working with attorneys, parents can negotiate terms to present to the court. For example, through negotiation, parents can create a parenting plan that outlines physical custody, decision-making responsibilities, and visitation schedules.
  • Mediation. If parents cannot agree to a custody arrangement, the court may order mediation before trial. Mediation involves a neutral third party who helps facilitate discussions and guide parents toward a custody agreement. Once parents reach a custody agreement through mediation, they can make it legally binding by submitting it to the court for approval.
  • Trial. In cases where parents cannot agree on custody, the case will go to trial. The court will hear evidence from both sides. Then, it will make a decision.

Related Guides:

  • What to Expect in Texas Family Law Court
  • How Long Does the Court Take to Decide Child Custody Cases?
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Find Your Custody Path

Every custody situation starts somewhere different. Which best describes where you are right now?

Step 1 of 3

Starting a New Custody Case

The right filing depends on your relationship to the other parent. Which applies to you?

Step 2 of 3

Changing an Existing Custody Order

The timing of your request matters under Texas law. When was the current order signed?

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Custody Through Divorce or Separation

Custody is usually decided as part of the divorce case. Texas courts presume joint managing conservatorship is in the child’s best interest, but the order can still give one parent the exclusive right to decide where the child lives. You and the other parent may be able to agree on a parenting plan through negotiation or mediation. If you cannot agree, a judge will decide based on the child’s best interest.

Consider gathering records of your involvement in the child’s daily life and thinking about what custody arrangement would be most stable for the child. That groundwork can make a real difference whether the case settles or goes to trial.

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Custody When Parents Were Never Married

When parents were never married, the usual path is a Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship (SAPCR). If paternity has not been legally established, that step generally must happen before the court can address conservatorship, possession, access, and support. Texas also usually must be the child’s home state before the court can make an initial custody determination.

Without a signed court order, your day-to-day parenting role may not give you enforceable legal rights. Filing sooner rather than later helps protect your position, especially if the other parent is planning a move or making decisions without your input.

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Grandparent Seeking Custody or Visitation

In Texas, grandparents do not have automatic rights to custody or visitation. You may be able to seek conservatorship or possession and access in limited situations, but these cases usually require standing and proof that meets the Family Code’s standards under Tex. Fam. Code sections 102.004 and 153.433.

Because standing requirements are strict, talking with an attorney early can help you understand whether your situation qualifies and what evidence you may need before filing.

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Step 3 of 3

Modification Within One Year

If you are trying to change a custody order within one year of the current order, extra limits apply under Tex. Fam. Code section 156.102, especially when the request would change who decides the child’s primary residence. The pleadings and proof required are more demanding than in a standard modification.

Because of the stricter standard, building a strong factual record early matters. An attorney can help you assess whether your facts meet the higher threshold before you file.

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Standard Modification After One Year

After one year, the standard path is to file a modification case and show that the requested change is in the child’s best interest and that circumstances have materially and substantially changed. Common grounds include relocation, safety concerns, school issues, or repeated denial of parenting time.

A private agreement with the other parent does not replace the court order. Only a new signed court order changes the old one. If your circumstances have shifted, getting the order updated protects both you and your child going forward.

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Enforcing a Custody Order

If the other parent is not following the custody order, you may be able to file a motion to enforce, and the judge can use contempt remedies in some cases. Texas enforcement cases are detail-driven, so the exact wording of the order, the pickup location, and the date and time of each violation matter a great deal.

Keep a clear record of every incident, including texts, emails, witnesses, and arrival times. Do not withhold support or future visits in response. A clean record plus the right legal steps usually makes for the strongest enforcement case.

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Emergency or Temporary Custody Protection

Texas handles emergencies in stages. A temporary restraining order can stop harmful conduct quickly, and temporary orders can then set where the child stays, who makes key decisions, and how parenting time works while the case is pending. A TRO usually lasts no more than 14 days unless the court extends it, and it requires specific facts shown by affidavit or verified pleading.

Judges reserve true emergency relief for recent facts involving harm, abduction risk, or serious instability. Specific dates, messages, photos, and school or medical records carry more weight than general complaints. If you believe the child is in danger, acting quickly is important.

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What Do Judges Look for in Child Custody Cases in Texas?

If parents fail to agree on a custody plan, the court will make decisions about custody. Texas law requires that the "best interest of the child" be the primary consideration when making custody decisions. However, the Texas Family Code does not define a specific standard for best interest. Instead, Texas courts rely on the factors outlined in Holley v. Adams, 544 S.W.2d 367 (Tex. 1976), which have served as the framework for best-interest analysis in custody cases for nearly five decades.
Under the Holley factors, a family judge will look at a range of considerations to determine what arrangement is in the child's best interest. Generally, you can expect a Texas family law judge to weigh the following:

  • Physical and emotional needs of the child
  • Special needs of the child
  • Each parent's financial situation
  • Each parent's living situation
  • Child's preference, if age 12 or older
  • Previous caretaker and living arrangements
  • Danger to the child, including abuse and neglect
  • Alcohol and drug dependency

The Holley Factors: How Texas Courts Evaluate Best Interest

Holley v. Adams, 544 S.W.2d 367 (Tex. 1976)

  • 1Desires of the child
  • 2Emotional and physical needs of the child now and in the future
  • 3Emotional and physical danger to the child now and in the future
  • 4Parental abilities of the individuals seeking custody
  • 5Programs available to assist the individuals seeking custody
  • 6Plans for the child by the individuals seeking custody
  • 7Stability of the home or proposed placement
  • 8Acts or omissions of the parent that may indicate the parent-child relationship is not proper
  • 9Any excuse for acts or omissions of the parent

This list is not exhaustive. Texas judges have discretion to consider any factor relevant to the child's welfare.

The list above is not exhaustive of the circumstances a judge may consider. Generally, a judge has the discretion to consider any factors that are relevant to the case.
Related Guides:

  • Understanding the Best Interest of the Child
  • How to Prove You Are a Fit Parent in Texas
  • How to Help Your Child Cope With Divorce in Texas

How to Win Child Custody in Texas

When it comes to child custody cases in Texas, the concept of "winning" can be subjective and deeply personal. For example, your definition of a successful outcome may include specific custodial arrangements, decision-making rights, or visitation schedules. However, success in a custody case should not be about defeating the other parent. Your child's best interests should take priority, and your objectives should align with them.

Steps That Strengthen a Texas Custody Case

Practical actions you can take now — before or during your case

  • Stay consistently involved

    Attend school events, doctor visits, and extracurriculars. Courts look at who is actively parenting day to day.

  • Cooperate with the other parent

    Judges favor parents who communicate, share information about the child, and support the other parent's relationship.

  • Document everything

    Save texts, emails, school records, and medical receipts. Specific dates and details matter far more than general claims.

  • Keep your own record clean

    Avoid badmouthing the other parent, withholding visitation, or making unilateral decisions. Self-help can damage credibility fast.

  • Work with an experienced attorney early

    A custody lawyer can help you build your strategy, avoid common mistakes, and present your case effectively.

Related Guides:

  • Do Mothers Get Custody in Texas?
  • How to Win Child Custody as a Mother in Texas
  • How Can a Father Get Full Custody in Texas?
  • Can a Father Get Full Custody of a Newborn?
  • What Should You Not Do During a Custody Battle in Texas?

Contact Our Child Custody Attorneys in Dallas, TX for Help With Your Child Custody Case

Child custody matters can be complicated, lengthy, and emotional chapters in your family's life. Since we want your case to be as smooth and without stress as possible, we approach every case with an open mind. We are willing to work from scratch with you in an effort to achieve the case results you desire for you and your child.
From the initial consultation until the day your case is resolved, our team at Warren & Migliaccio is here to advocate for you and your children. Contact a Dallas child custody attorney from our firm today to discuss your legal options and how we can support you.
Call us today at (888) 584-9614 or fill out our online contact form, and we will contact you soon. We work with families throughout DFW and North Texas.

Frequently Asked Questions About Child Custody in Texas

Answers reviewed by Gary R. Warren, Co-Founding Partner at Warren & Migliaccio, L.L.P.

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  • How long does a custody case usually take in Texas?
  • How much does it cost to file or fight a custody case in Texas?
  • Do I need a custody order if I was never married to the other parent?
  • Can I get emergency or temporary custody orders in Texas?
  • At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Texas?
  • Can I move away with my child after a Texas custody order?
  • Can I change a Texas custody order after the case is over?
  • What happens if the other parent refuses to follow the custody order?

Filing and early case decisions

How long does a custody case usually take in Texas?

It depends on whether the case is agreed or contested. An agreed Texas custody case can sometimes be finished in days once both parents are ready to sign the paperwork. A contested case usually takes much longer because it may involve temporary orders, mediation, document exchange, and a final hearing.

Texas custody disputes are often handled in a Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship, or SAPCR, or as part of a divorce. If you are served with a case, the deadline to file an answer usually is 10:00 a.m. on the Monday after 20 days have passed from the date of service, so early action matters. Tex. R. Civ. P. 99(b). Once a case is contested, the timeline often expands because the court may require mediation before trial and each side may need time to gather records, school information, medical evidence, or witness testimony. A practical point many parents miss is that delay can shape the case. The longer a temporary routine stays in place, the more likely the court is to treat that routine as the child's current normal.

Related: Learn more about temporary custody orders and how they affect your timeline.

How much does it cost to file or fight a custody case in Texas?

The cost of a Texas custody case varies widely. Most parents should expect a filing fee, service fees if the other parent must be formally served, and often mediation costs if the case is contested. Attorney fees usually rise when the case involves emergency requests, discovery disputes, experts, or trial.

One useful starting point is to separate court costs from case costs. Court costs are the filing, issuance, and service fees tied to opening the case. Case costs can grow if the dispute involves relocation, a custody evaluation, supervised visitation, or multiple hearings. If money is tight, Texas courts allow some parents to file a Statement of Inability to Afford Payment of Court Costs to ask the court to waive eligible costs. Tex. R. Civ. P. 145. A fresh angle here is that the least expensive option is not always doing nothing. Informal side deals that never get turned into a signed order often lead to later enforcement or modification fights, which can cost more than resolving the issue correctly the first time.

Related: See how modification cases can compound costs if informal agreements fall apart.

Do I need a custody order if I was never married to the other parent?

Yes, in most cases you still need a court order if you want clear rules about conservatorship, parenting time, and child support. In Texas, unmarried parents often use a SAPCR. If paternity has not been legally established, a paternity case may need to be filed first or at the same time.

This issue matters because being a parent in everyday life is not always the same as having enforceable court rights. If both parents already signed an Acknowledgment of Paternity, a SAPCR is often the right vehicle. If not, paternity usually must be established before the court can fully address conservatorship, possession, access, and support. Texas also usually must be the child's home state before a court makes an initial custody determination, which often means the child has lived here for the last six months or since birth. Tex. Fam. Code § 160.201. Tex. Fam. Code § 152.201. That can become important fast when one parent has moved.

Related: If the child has moved, learn about geographic restrictions that may now apply.

Can I get emergency or temporary custody orders in Texas?

Yes, but Texas handles emergencies in stages. A temporary restraining order can quickly stop harmful conduct, and temporary orders can then set where the child stays, who makes key decisions, and how parenting time works while the case is pending.

The difference between those two tools is important. A TRO is short-term relief meant to hold things steady until the court can hear more evidence. A TRO usually lasts no more than 14 days unless the court extends it, and it generally requires specific facts shown by affidavit or a verified pleading before the court can issue it without notice. Tex. R. Civ. P. 680. Temporary orders are broader and often control the case until final judgment. The fresh angle is that not every parenting dispute is a legal emergency. Judges usually reserve true emergency relief for recent facts involving harm, abduction risk, or serious instability. Vague complaints or old problems usually carry less weight than specific dates, messages, photos, or school and medical records.

Related: Understand how temporary orders fit into the overall case timeline.

Parenting schedules and moving issues

At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Texas?

A child does not get to make the final custody decision in Texas, even at age 12 or older. What changes at 12 is that the court can interview the child in chambers about the child's wishes, and the judge may consider that preference when deciding what is best for the child.

That is an important distinction because many parents hear that a 12-year-old can "choose" and treat it like a rule. It is not. Texas Family Code Section 153.009 addresses interviews in chambers, and Texas courts still decide conservatorship based on the child's best interest. The judge may look at safety, stability, school performance, medical needs, each parent's judgment, and whether one parent is trying to influence the child. A practical mistake to avoid is coaching. If a child sounds rehearsed or pressured, that can hurt the parent who pushed the conversation. The child's voice matters, but it is only one piece of a much bigger best-interest analysis.

Related: If circumstances have changed since the original order, you may be able to modify your custody order.

Can I move away with my child after a Texas custody order?

Maybe, but many Texas custody orders limit where the child can live. If your order contains a geographic restriction, you usually need to go back to court before moving the child outside that area. Moving first and asking later can create a serious problem.

Relocation fights often turn on the exact wording of the current order. Some orders limit the child's residence to a county, a group of counties, or even a school attendance zone. Others allow more freedom but still leave room for a challenge if the move disrupts the other parent's schedule or the child's routine. In a joint managing conservatorship, the court may grant one parent the exclusive right to designate the child's primary residence within a specified geographic area. Tex. Fam. Code § 153.134(b). One practical point parents often miss is timing. Before signing a lease, changing schools, or taking a new job, read the residence language in the current order and compare it to the proposed move. Even when the move seems reasonable, a court may still need to decide whether the change serves the child's best interest and whether the parenting schedule must also be rewritten.

Related: If circumstances change, you may need to modify your custody order after relocation.

Modifying and enforcing existing orders

Can I change a Texas custody order after the case is over?

Yes, but you usually need more than regret or a private agreement. To change a signed custody order, you generally must file a modification case and show that the requested change is in the child's best interest and that circumstances have materially and substantially changed, unless another statutory ground applies. Tex. Fam. Code § 156.101.

Two practical traps show up often in modification cases. First, parents make an informal side agreement and follow it for months, then assume it replaced the court order. It did not. Only a new signed court order changes the old one. Second, timing matters. If you are trying to change primary custody within one year of the current order, extra limits may apply, especially when the request would change who decides the child's primary residence. Tex. Fam. Code § 156.102. That makes pleadings and proof more important than many people expect. Good modification cases usually focus on concrete changes such as school issues, relocation, safety concerns, repeated denial of parenting time, or a major change in a parent's ability to care for the child.

Related: If the other parent violates the modified order, see enforcement options.

What happens if the other parent refuses to follow the custody order?

You may be able to file a motion to enforce the order, and in some cases the judge can use contempt remedies. Texas law allows a court to enforce a custody order through a motion for enforcement, and a finding of contempt can carry fines or even jail time. Tex. Fam. Code § 157.001. Texas enforcement cases are detail-driven, so the exact wording of the order, the pickup location, and the date and time of each violation matter a great deal.

This is one area where small facts control big outcomes. TexasLawHelp warns that for denied possession, you generally must appear in person at the exact pickup place listed in the order, even if the other parent already said the child would not be there. That step often decides whether the violation can actually be enforced. Keep a clean record of each incident, including texts, emails, witnesses, and arrival times. Also, do not retaliate by withholding support or future visits. In Texas, child support and parenting time are separate issues, and self-help can damage your credibility and create an enforcement problem for you too. A clear order plus careful documentation usually makes for the strongest enforcement case.

Related: If violations are ongoing, it may also be time to modify your custody order.

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Christopher Migliaccio, attorney in Dallas, Texas
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Christopher Migliaccio is Co-Founding Partner and Managing Partner of Warren & Migliaccio, L.L.P., where along with Gary Warren he leads a team of attorneys serving Texas families since 2006. A graduate of Thomas M. Cooley School of Law with a B.A. in Accountancy, he oversees the firm's practice areas including debt defense, bankruptcy, divorce, child custody, and estate planning.

Licensed by the State Bar of Texas (#24053059 ✓), Christopher and his team serve clients statewide for debt defense and estate planning matters, while focusing on North Texas families for bankruptcy and family law cases. His unique financial background and nearly two decades of leadership enable him to ensure each client receives compassionate, strategic guidance.

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